I would look at it not in the light of agreements, contracts, or obligations, but in the light of care and love for your partner. Sex is not a thing you owe your partner, but in a long-term relationship where sex is part of how you express love and intimacy, I do think partners need to be mindful of and compassionate toward each others’ needs and…[Read more]
I’m adding that list at the end to my small collection of “good rape jokes” to trot out whenever I have that discussion with people. I snortled.
And, to Dawkins: FFS, go away and learn how to think.